Recovering The SelfA Journal of Hope and Healing


Attract Positivity to Your Life with These Helpful Tips

Guest Blogger: Annabelle Smythpositive lifestyle

No one wants to walk around in a cloud of negativity. However, it can be difficult to break out of that negative mindset. There are several ways to begin to attract positivity in your life.

Be at Peace with your Current Circumstances

It may seem counter-intuitive but the first step toward positivity is to be at peace with where you currently are in your life. Sometimes, the more you try to escape, resist, or run away from your current life, the more it seems to drag you back in. Simply observe your current circumstances without judging. If possible, let things be as they are without focusing on the negativity.


Begin to visualize the kind of life that you want to have for yourself. Create an image and actively see yourself living that life. Don’t focus on any specific outcome. Visualization is effective because it allows you to see yourself acting in positive circumstances. Visualizing a desired outcome will help you to be ready when that circumstance becomes reality.

Pretend That You Have What You Want

Once you can imagine your desired life, you can begin creating it. The first step is to pretend that you already have it and begin acting as such. Walk as though you are a success. Speak with confidence. Positivity attracts positivity. Negativity attracts negativity. Mastering the art of behaving positively will often draw what you seek into your life.

Seek Positivity

Seek out positive people. Negative people drain the energy of others. When you surround yourself with people who are eager to criticize or discourage you, you are eliminating possibilities. It is almost impossible to experience positivity when you are confronted with doubt and pessimism at every turn. In addition, spending time with those who are always negative will only teach you to emulate negativity. Watching positive people will help you to learn their habits.

Find a Life Coach

In Detroit, life coaching is becoming popular. An experienced coach can help you learn the tools of positivity. A life coach in Detroit is trained to help you take positive steps toward improving your life. They can be that positive support person who will help you move out of the sea of negativity.

Regardless of your current circumstances, you can have positivity in your life. Begin to visualize and act. Seek positive people. Utilize the services of a professional life coach and watch the positivity unfold in your life.

About the Author

Annabelle is currently a loving and caring mother of two children. She lives outside of Milwaukee, WI, and loves cheering for the Bucks and Badgers. She is a blog enthusiast and loves writing, if she is not writing she is cleaning up after her two lovely angels. 

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